Reflections on the year passed

     Rather than the usual New Year’s resolutions I decided to list 12 events that marked the year in positive ways.

1.  While there has been quite a hiatus in my “artbloging” and my web site has still not been fully updated, I have had a fully productive year in art.  I am pleased with both my progress and new direction.

2.  Ron and I purchased a true beach retreat at Cape Cod.  I love it there.  Every so often I have to pinch myself to make sure it is real.  The commute is no issue for me.  On the contrary, I welcome the quiet time on the road.

3.  I am blessed with a supportive husband who is neither possessive nor controlling and who understands my needs as an artist.

4.  I am blessed with wonderful friends.  We have fun times together and I can’t imagine my life without those close friendships.  Surround yourself with friends of all ages.

5.  OK this will sound cheesy to many.  I love my dog Max.  His loving presence is essential to both my mental and physical health.  I simply cannot put into words the marvel of having a loyal pet.

6.  I am happy to live in Boston.  To me it is one of the most European cities in the United States.  Not only is Boston an amazing research and medical center, it is also a city that thrives on art, music, gastronomy and maritime life without being an overwhelming metropolis.  The public spaces are gorgeous.  If you haven’t yet done so, you need to visit the newly developed water front and to walk the green way surrounding the inner city.

7.  I got voted into the St. Botolph Club.  This private club offers wonderful programs in the arts.  The food is delicious and Monsieur Chevalier, the general manager who is also French, is simply a darling.  There is a monthly French table which I will enjoy.

8.  I continue to study Italian.  I am in the advanced group now.  Everyone is highly motivated and passionate about the culture.  It is a great group of people.

9.  Ron and I went on a fabulous 3 week trip to the Tuscan countryside.  Ma che bella la Toscana!

10.  Trust me dealing with family gets easier with age.  Just put on your “humor” lenses and sit back to enjoy the show.

11.  I have been “de-cluttering” for a while now.  It feels great and gives you more living space.

12.  I am glad this is the last item.  I am running out of things to say.  Ron and I have belonged to the same health club for 15 years.  We go regularly though not together.  Both of us understand and appreciate the benefits of staying fit.

I urge you to write your own list for yourself.  Sharing it with a partner of friend is even better.  In either case it will make you feel good.  If, however, you cannot come up with 12 items to list, perhaps it is time to reevaluate the way your life is going.  Perhaps some changes are in order.

Happy New Year                                                                                 Yvette